The Gift of Kindness: The Christmas Treasure That Costs Nothing

As we head into the holiday season, I am sharing a new blog series called 12 Things Money Can’t Buy: A Christmas Countdown of What Truly Matters. The first gift I share with you is kindness.

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Kindness: The gift that costs nothing but changes everything.

It seems unbelievable that the Christmas season is almost here once again. The year seemed to fly by, and here we are heading into the holidays. For some, it brings excitement and joy, yet for others it can only enhance the loneliness and discouragement they are already experiencing on a daily basis.

At this time of year, we talk of Christmas wish lists and often are scurrying around trying to find the perfect gift for everyone on our list.

​One gift that is perfect for everyone is the gift of kindness. Something so simple, yet so valuable all at the same time. Let's examine this for a moment, unwrap this precious treasure, and see why kindness is needed now more than ever.

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Times are tough

Christmas comes at the end of the calendar year, and for many it has been a hard and difficult year. Depression and anxiety seem to be commonplace these days.

​Extending a bit more grace, generosity, and kindness is key at this time of year. The holidays have been known to be especially challenging for those who have experienced hardships throughout the year, as they could be struggling financially, missing a loved one, or in a situation they never anticipated. These people need someone to lift their spirits and help them see that there is still joy to be found in the midst of sadness. We are often unaware of what people have been going through, and by each of us deciding to be a bit more gracious, it can truly make a powerful difference.

Positivity is so refreshing

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There is so much negativity in our world. When you choose to break that trend and be a positive voice in the crowd, people will be drawn to you and feel encouraged and inspired. They will be blessed by your presence and your optimistic views on things. You bring hope and healing to others by helping them to see that there is still good in this world, demonstrated through your positive perspective and sincere effort to be kind.

A little means a lot

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I love the expression throw kindness around like confetti. Seriously, people, sprinkle that stuff everywhere. It will be soaked up like water in the desert with so many positive benefits for both you and the recipient of your warmth and goodwill.

Imagine how different our world would be if we all decided that every day we would focus on being extra kind to at least one person each day. Find some people and sprinkle away!

Perhaps you let them ahead of you in the coffee line, pay for their order in the drive-thru, shovel their driveway, offer to babysit so they can get a much-needed break, or drop off some Christmas cookies to them. Don’t hesitate. Do it. What we may think is small can be so meaningful in another’s eyes. Not only that, but your small, heartfelt gesture could be what makes their entire Christmas this year.

Let’s remember how valuable and needed kindness is these days and put it on our priority list as we finish off this year and head into the next.

Call to Action:

1. Make a list of people you know who have experienced hardship or loss this year.
2. Choose someone or several people on that list to bless with a small gift or loving gesture to let them know you are thinking of them and they matter.
3. Make it a daily goal to look for opportunities to add more kindness into your day.

When we focus on kindness, the world becomes a more gentle, positive, and inspiring place to live for each and every one of us.

​Until next time,
Dana

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Author

Dana Romualdi is an elementary teacher, social worker, and writer who is passionate about helping others find hope, healing, and growth through life’s challenges. As the creator of Little Lessons Learned by Dana, she shares faith-filled insights and practical wisdom to inspire others to live with purpose and compassion.

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