The Things We Do For Love

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"True love is when you know that no matter what happens, you will always choose each other."  ~ Unknown

My husband and I had the privilege of attending one of my best friend’s daughter’s wedding this weekend. There was lots of incredible food and engaging conversation, along with many lively musical numbers from the very talented family, and so many memorable moments. 

Some moments were heartwarming, some were very funny, some were very touching and some really gave you something to think about. 

We had a great time and were so happy to celebrate with the beautiful couple, Hannah and Sean. 

One moment that really stood out was something Sean, the groom, said in his speech to Hannah. It is how it made me think, "This one is a keeper."

He shared that he had really expanded his interests and willingness to try new things since meeting Hannah.

He went on to explain that even if he personally didn’t get super excited about the quaint new coffee shop an hour and half away, or the latest musical theater production in town, because Hannah did, he would join her and do those things “for her” with pleasure. This resonated with both my husband and I and we shared with Sean how much we appreciated him sharing that. This is exactly what true love does.

This is such an important quality to have in a strong marriage. The ability to participate in experiences that are not necessarily your "cup of tea" with both a positive attitude and happy heart because your significant other loves those things, is absolutely love in action for your partner. 

Believe me this goes a long way in relationships. Relationships are all about give and take and I am so glad this newly married couple have already figured that out. It will sure set them up for success as the years unfold. ​

Hannah and Sean ~ Photo by: Kayleigh Hayward

​I love the Disney movie, Enchanted. In the movie one of my favourite songs is That’s How You Know. In the song it speaks of all the little things someone will do for you when in love such as: write a little love note, dedicate a song to you, send flowers or take you out dancing. There are just certain things that show love in action and the key to a successful marriage is to keep on doing those things no matter how many anniversaries you have celebrated.

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Love in action was also so powerfully demonstrated by our Heavenly Father. 

In Romans 5:8 it says: But God proves his love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 

God loved us all so much that even in our sinful state, he sent his only son to die on a lonely cross for us. It is hard to fathom why he would do that when we are so incredibly undeserving.

He didn't see it that way. He saw us as so valuable and worthy of redemption. He did this so that we could be forgiven of our sins and enjoy Heaven as our home one day.

If that is not love in action, I sure don’t know what is! 

We can follow his example to demonstrate love in action daily for those who are most important to us as well. Truth be told, it is not always easy to do this on our own. We are only human after all.

Whether it is our romantic relationships, or with family members,  colleagues, or other significant people in our lives, as people we are not always skilled in this area. We fall short all too often. 

With God’s love and acceptance fueling our tanks however, it empowers us to take our loving others to a whole new level, eqipping us to “love God and love people” in the most powerful way possible.

Here's to love in action!

Until next time,
Dana

Lamentations 3:22: The faithful love of the Lord never ends. His mercies never cease.

Little Lesson Learned: When it comes to truly loving others, action really does speak louder than words. Love out loud today! 

© 2024, littlelessonslearnedbydana 

Author

Dana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, blogger, author, and speaker. Dana desires to "love God and love people" whole heartedly. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. Dana lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working in the classroom or blogging, she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books.

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