Three Ways To Be An Encourager

As we Walk Through the Word today, let's look at what 1 Thessalonians 5:11 has to say about how we can be a blessing to each other in simple, yet powerful ways. 

This verse says: "Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing." What does encouragement look like? It can come in many shapes and forms and can be very specific for the person who needs it. Here are three ways you can give encouragement easily starting NOW.

Give compliments freely

Never underestimate the power of a kind word or compliment. It could be exactly what that person needs to hear that day. Some people have never been complimented or told that he or she is valued. Our words can be like an oasis in the desert to someone who desperately needs refreshment. I recently heard of what is called ICNU statements. The way it works is to say to someone you want to encourage something like this... "I see in you such greatness, or I see in you so much creativity," or whatever you happen to notice or want to validate.

​Don't just think about it, but instead actually say it. People cannot read your thoughts and your compliment could be the only positive word that this person has heard in a very long time.

Listen without judgement

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Practice being a better listener. Don't just wait to respond but listen to understand. Get comfortable with a one-sided conversation if needed, where you are mostly or only the listener. Sometimes people do not need advice, but rather the opportunity to share the burden or vent. Give nonverbal support, like a smile, a head nod, a hand on the shoulder and direct eye contact. Give the message that you are my priority, you matter, and you have my full attention. Your gift is your time and your presence, and you can't put a price on that.

Pray for them

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Ask your friend or family member how you can specifically pray for him or her and do it often. Text them and let them know that you are praying for them. Follow up with who you are praying for and get frequent updates. Find out if there are new concerns, praise reports or more to the story. Stay involved as a prayer partner and let them know that with God as part of the problem-solving team, miracles can and do happen.

You have the power to make a profound difference in someone's life. Why not do that right now and share some encouragement today?

Tuck that in your heart today.

Dear Heavenly Father: Please help us to look for opportunities where we can be an encourager. Open our eyes and ears to look for people who need us. Empower us to love as you loved and to be the hands and feet of Christ to those who need that today. 

In Jesus' name, Amen.

​Sending you a virtual hug,

Dana

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Author

Dana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, author, social worker, blogger and speaker. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much-needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working in the classroom or writing, she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books. ​

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