“Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future” Robert H. Schuller Happy New Year everyone! As I write this blog, we are well into 2024 and I truly hope your year is off to a fantastic start! As we welcome a new year, we also must say goodbye to the old year. So how should we describe the previous year we have just come through? What adjectives would seem appropriate? I guess it depends on who you ask. Did we thrive or survive or were we somewhere in between? The answers are often quite diverse. For some, 2023 brought amazing times, unforgettable moments and more blessings than their hearts could possibly contain. If that is you, congratulations! I am so incredibly happy for you! For others however, 2023 brought heartache, pain and feelings of loss that few can imagine. I fall into the latter category, and I am not a real fan of 2022 either, as my family experienced loss on a whole new level, with the loss of my precious mom. Life is like that sometimes. We can all have such different life experiences. We are all given the same twelve months on the calendar, yet the ways those days roll out are clearly not the same. My mom was my mentor, prayer partner and best friend. She was such a positive ray of sunshine. No wonder we called her our Sunshine girl and she had more “You are My Sunshine” products in her house than should be allowed! Everyone who knew her loved her and she truly brought light to the darkness wherever she went. Mom had a beautiful way of seeing the bright side in the most stressful and difficult situations. Many times, when tough times came my way, she would say her famous expression: “Don’t lose the victory!” But what does that exactly mean and what can we glean from this clever quote? Let's unpack it a bit. When hard times come, it is so easy to get caught up in the negativity of it all and accept defeat without even looking and believing for the better. This is especially true if your heartaches and struggles have been lengthy. I hear you. I see you. I am right there with you. I challenge you however, despite the type of 2023 you have had, to still look to 2024 with hope and positive expectations. Life can be hard, but it is still beautiful. Don't lose the victory. Challenging times can leave us with the most wonderful tools to help others. Hope is what keeps us believing for better times and gives us a reason to get up each morning. If your life is filled with pain and struggle right now, you are not alone. I have been there and walked that road, but I must remind you that don’t you dare for one minute believe this is all there is for you. The rest of your beautiful story is still unwritten. Don't lose the victory or hope. The Bible says in John 10:10 ~ I have come that they may have life and have it to the full. Life is a journey with many unexpected ups and downs, but we were never meant to just exist. We were meant for so much more. We were meant to be victorious despite what life throws us. In our own strength it can feel impossible. It is difficult to feel and act like a winner at times, but when we partner with the almighty God, all things are truly possible. We can be on the winning side despite what our circumstances tell us. In my hardest days my mom would say “There are better days ahead.” As cliche as that might sound, I would cling to those words and found them to be true time and time again in my life. I challenge you, this year no matter what type of things life has brought your way recently, to look to this new year with hope and as a fresh and exciting new season of your life. Look for all the good that life has to offer because the good is still there. As Mom would say "There are better days ahead for you too" and I am truly excited to see what lies ahead for both of us! Until next time, Dana Jeremiah 29: 11 ~ For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” Little Lesson Learned: Bad times do not equal a bad life. Life is still good no matter what may come our way. Don’t lose hope. Copyright © 2024 littlelessonslearnedbydana Dana Romualdi, the copyright holder reserves all rights to the content on the blog and website Little Lessons Learned by Dana, including the right to reproduce, distribute, and display the content. No content or photographs may be reproduced or modified. Blogs may be shared on social media platforms in their entirety only with full credit given to the owner. Any photographs used by other photographers are used with permission and are also protected. All rights reserved. Tags: happy new year, perseverance, mental health, positive attitude, growth mindset, mental health support, goal setting, faith building, encouragement, christian blog AuthorDana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working or blogging, she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books.
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“Life is full of highs and lows. We need them both to grow to our fullest potential. Just hang on tight and enjoy the ride.” ~ Dawn Gluskin
Tags: elementary teaching, perseverance, burnout, mental health, positive attitude, growth mindset, mental health support, goal setting, faith building, encouragementIf I do say so myself, I have taught some of my most successful and engaging lessons this month. Yeah me! We are studying simple machines in Science, and I wanted to make it interesting and hands-on, so we did several experiments. We had so much fun comparing the speeds of items rolling down an inclined plane, making plastic spoon catapults when we learned about levers and constructing mini flagpoles complete with little flags and pulleys. The kids were beside themselves and so delighted to be able to do more activities in partners and small groups now that some restrictions have been lifted. One little girl was especially pumped about the original flag she created for her imaginary country of “Volcano Land.” She told me she was going to compose a national anthem for it and would like to share it with class the next day. I was excited as was she the next day, to hear her national anthem that she had composed and practiced “all night” at home. It went like this …. “Oh Volcano Land….” (Think O Canada…) pause…. “Umm that’s all I have so far!” Not quite what I expected. Priceless, and so cute!
Although I am particularly proud of these lessons mentioned above, some other lessons, not so much. I have had times where kids look at me with blank stares where I have even confused myself on what I was trying to explain. The metric staircase lesson I was teaching recently is a great example. I hadn’t taught this topic for a few years. Nevertheless, I was confident that I still knew how to deliver the goods, until I tried to explain converting with mm, cm, m, and km and realized I was so out of practice! Let’s just say if the metric staircase was a real staircase; I came tumbling down the stairs for all to see! But guess what? I survived. We all laughed about it. I put the lesson aside, did my homework on the topic and delivered it later that week with clarity. It was a teachable moment for sure, and that is always a good thing.
I can’t help but think that life is so much like that. We have hills and we have valleys. For myself, some days I feel like I am crushing it. I am so productive. The to-do list is getting done. I am so proud. I feel on top of the world. Yet other days, I am exhausted, can barely make the bed and PJs are my preferred outfit of choice. Did I mention how much I LOVE Pajama Days at my school? I used to feel so guilty on these days and worry so much about why I couldn’t get my act together. I don’t do that anymore, because I have come to realize that life is truly all about balance. Some days we hit a homerun and some days we strike out. Some days we are the one who has it all going on and some days we are the one who has nothing going on. Can you relate? If so, please do not beat yourself up. You are human. You are tired and you are truly doing your best.
Lately when I get discouraged and start getting into a mode where I am beating myself up for my shortcomings, I ask myself “I am trying my best?” Nine times out of ten the answer is a resounding “YES!” I then remind myself that that is truly all that matters. Life is a marathon, not a sprint and each day provides new opportunities to get back at it.
I have gotten caught up with life and have let my blogging responsibilities go by the wayside which has caused me great stress and made me so disappointed in myself. My blog is something I highly value and getting my message of hope and encouragement out there is a huge priority for me. So here I am, and I am back at it, and it feels GREAT! We need to understand the assignment we have been given in life is to live our lives each day to honour God, love others and to leave this world a little better than we found it. Some days our influence may seem vast and powerful and some days our strength is needed to simply encourage ourselves. You are loved and valued by so many no matter how you show up each day. The world needs you and a bad day does not equal a bad life. I want to encourage you to take one day at a time and know that some days simply will be better than others and that is completely normal. Laugh at your mistakes. Learn from them and use them to let others know that you are human and can use those opportunities for self improvement. It is easy to get discouraged these days but knowing that you are doing the best you can each day whatever “the best” is looking like that day, is all that God asks of you. I got your back my friend and want you to live the best life you can. You are not alone and know that ups and downs come, but you are never alone on this rollercoaster ride called life. You are among friends and you’ve got me! Please reach out if you need to talk! I am all ears! dana.romualdi@gmail.com ~ Until next time, Dana 1 Chronicles 16:11: Look to the Lord and his strength. Seek His face always. Little Lesson Learned: Life has its highs and lows, but can still be meaningful when you keep a positive outlook and open mind to learn from both the good and bad that comes your way. Copyright © 2022 littlelessonslearnedbydana Dana Romualdi, the copyright holder reserves all rights to the content on the blog and website Little Lessons Learned by Dana, including the right to reproduce, distribute, and display the content. No content or photographs may be reproduced or modified. Blogs may be shared on social media platforms in their entirety only with full credit given to the owner. Any photographs used by other photographers are used with permission and are also protected. All Rights Reserved. Author:
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AuthorDana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much-needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working in the classroom or blogging, she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books. |
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Dana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working or blogging, she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books.
Dana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working or blogging, she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books.
Dana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working or blogging she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books.
AuthorDana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working or blogging she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books. |
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AuthorDana Romualdi is an elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working or blogging she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books. |
Dana Romualdi is an elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working or blogging she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books.
Dana Romualdi is a Canadian elementary teacher, social worker, blogger, author, motivational speaker and recording artist. She has a passion for helping others and spreading much-needed encouragement. She lives in Canada with her husband and two grown children. When she is not working in the classroom or blogging, she enjoys drinking coffee, watching Netflix and reading great books.